Missing: Reward if Found

This item was first published 07 Sep 2005 on AlexSuze.com

Don't worry I eventually found them again ;D

I'm not happy. I need help. My clitoral orgasms appear to have been stolen. Both Alex and myself have been trying to bring me off for the past few days, but to no avail. Is it possible that someone has stolen my abilities in the night?

Have any of my female readers encountered this problem? Or is it just me. Either way I miss them very much. I suppose you are all thinking that I am a little greedy, as Alex and I have a wonderful relationship and screw at any given moment, erection permitting.

But I am feeling a general sense of loss, yes screwing and orgasming is bliss but a clitoral orgasm is a completely different thing. It is an all consuming spasm of ecstasy, very difficult to describe to someone who hasn't delighted in one. It takes over your whole body, as I have described before, your toes and fingers begin to tingle and your body goes in to spasms.

Yes you can screw, play with your toys, even indulge in cunnilingus, but nothing comes close to a clitoral orgasm. We have spent hours trying to regain my ability and all that I got was a sore button. Oh, listen to me going on, but I really do want them to return. We have tried rubbing me gently, flicking me hard, lots of licking and petting and still nothing.

Have things below moved or changed in the night? WHY AM I NOT HAVING MY CLITORAL ORGASMS? I am becoming obsessed with having them back ASAP? Do I go and see my doctor? Will he understand my dilemma? Has anyone else turned up to surgery demanding to know why they no longer have COs?

I'm frustrated, distracted, grieving... I need to sort this out. Is someone playing a cruel trick on me. Have I had my quota of sexual enjoyment for this year? Is it rationed?

If anyone has any advice to offer on regaining my loss, please email me. This has never happened to me before and some of you out there may have experienced similar problems. I need all the help I can get at the moment.

Maybe I need to relax and not let it get to me. Perhaps it's not happening because I want it so much. Could this be a catch 22 situation, the more I crave for it the less likely it is to happen...

I have been searching the web and found some interesting reading on clitoral orgasm's, which lead me to believe that my desire to have them return is well founded. These excerpts are taken from http://www.13.waisays.com/clitoral.htm.

"By having a clitoral orgasm, a large amount of oxytocin is released. This hormone is not at all essential to conceive, but is needed to regulate hormone levels impaired by stress and/or the menstrual cycle. Oxytocin deficiency enhances stress, obesity and psychotic behaviour, impairs cognitive functions and increases breast-cancer risk".

Girls I suggest you check out this site for the full picture. It makes very interesting reading, though some of the opinions expressed are, er, interesting and not necessarily ones which I agree with or that I am qualified to endorse.

Well I'm off to search under the sofa to see if my CO fell off and rolled under there, I'll keep you posted.

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